5 September 2012

First day at School

The first day of school is a big day in the life of a child, but often an even bigger one in the life of a Mother! Some kids head off enthusiastically and others cry and cling for a while. What makes the difference? It's all in the preparation. Speak to your child enthusiastically about school, "school is so much fun! You get to play with all the kids and play with all the toys!". As opposed to: "you'll be ok, it won't be for very long, I'm sure you'll be fine... Sniff..". My kids had their little backpacks packed a good month or so before starting school. The calendar was marked with a big gold star, and the count down was on! How fun, to go to a place with so many new friends to make! I dropped each child off with barely a wave back, and off they go. Then go away and cry, because of course we miss them! Don't feel bad about missing your baby, just don't let them know! Often they just cling because subconsciously we want to. Be proud you've raised a person who is able to take the next step in life!

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